How do we fix this !!!!!

What are we doing? It seems to be that us as a whole we are losing our grip on life.
The Government has fallen short in their job performance  and the media tends to make things even worse, by nit-picking .

Let me start by saying I do not Hate any one race of people. But I do hate what we have become. We all have the right to think how we want as long as we do not act or take away others rights. What happened in Charlottesville, VA was very tragic  and  was an act from a coward and was terroristic.  My thoughts and Prayers go out to the Heather Heyer family.

We can not blame everyone in that group for the actions of one, Lets look at all the facts.

  1. KKK was there, Yes they have rights as you and I like them or not.
  2. BLM was there, also  have same rights as KKK like it or not

How many drivers were in the car that destroyed lives ? Answer is ONE !!!!

Now That’s out and said. Lets face the facts. It always takes two to fight no matter what color we are, this is a hard cold fact. War it takes two, so without dragging this on and on as media outlets have lets put the blame where the blame is due and that would be all of us……What if I were there and I was standing on both sides of both groups then I would be at fault according to Media and others cause I was there. So that does not mean I agree with what that sick excuse for a human did, to take others lives and rights from them.

What I am saying is very basic. Lets do the right thing by others always, let others have their beliefs and their freedoms as long as there is not acts that hurt others. This is what land of the free means!!! You and I have the right to  think and like or not like whomever we want, but in the same breath  no matter how much we dislike something or someone do it with respect……and protect everyone’s rights as they are your own.

Lets not forget who we are and how we are so much alike.. And do not forget her.






Downward Spiral

This world we live in is headed down fast. Look around for just one good long minute.

Tell me what you see? People Texting instead of talking , Children Being disrespectful, not outside playing but glued to gaming systems, phones that cost more them most family’s average paychecks.

People killing one another for the hell of it or trying to get their name in the headlines. So whom is to blame? All of us are!! We let each other down with judgements of another, yes we may care about some of the people around us .But do we take the time to help out others and show kindness to be brothers and sisters that are around us. Yes we are all connected in some way or form.

Let me put this out there. We have so many people that don’t get meals every day, but we are willing to donate and send money overseas to feed people. I was looking online at a wholesale pallet company that sells self pulls by truckload for 5-6 thousand dollars. Why don’t a group of people help buy one truckload and take it to local foodbanks?

Another example of this is I out up a fund me site to start a company for Veterans that have a hard enough time getting work when they are disabled or no skills. Posted this on my twitter page and Facebook 300 some folks look but don’t even take the time to send .25 to a dollar what the hell these man a women put their lives out there for us?  

So take a moment and pass this along and really think what you might be able to do for others when there is a need.

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Keep That Spark

Just think how amazing it is that we are here. All the detail that went into the process to create me and you. Think about all the good times and the hard times we all go through, though some may have it worse we all go through massive stuff.

 Think about that 1st friendship and that first hug, take a moment and let that feeling wash over you. Look in the mirror and know you love yourself so you are able to love and understand others.
 You must be your biggest fan , and keep that spark of life alive in yourself as a result it will spread to others and sometimes it will be a beacon of light Drawing other positive people towards you.

Just Remember a few things today , We all make mistakes some bigger and some smaller the thing is to grow beyond those mistakes. I know better then anyone that it is hard to do sometimes but never never never Give up because all those failures will grow into success one day.

Put yourself in their Shoes




Try and put yourself in others shoes, just for a moment in their time. Sometimes we see others that seem to be going against all the social norms. We cannot judge them as we do not understand or know where their behaviors might be coming from, so instead of judgment try for a split moment to take the time and understand them, reach out to them.

By no means am I condoning people whom are breaking the law and doing terrible things. I am talking about people whom seem just off social wise, Depressed or withdrawn or just way different in what you think they should be. Open yourself up to others and let them share something with you, and you them. 

You never know what you might find and what new friendship my bloom. Word of the wise never pass another off because you view them as being different. Step away from Facebook just for a moment and do one great thing today help another feel as they are worth your time and effort. I do know there are many out there that already do this on a daily basis, now let’s get the rest of us doing it also.